Then here is the first of eight steps you must take in my new program called Living Forward in Life. Learn to laugh sooner; laugh about your mistakes in life. Learn from your mistakes. When you can say to your friends ―Do you remember when… and everybody laughs and it‘s okay, then you are able to move forward. The key is to not wait for months or years or even a lifetime before you arrive at that point. Move the laughter forward and your life will move forward in a very positive way. Just let it go and set yourself free to experience the true abundance that was meant for you. That is my goal: to help you build a better you, one day at a time.

The Good Life Rules!

Bryan Dodge

I speak to many executives from a variety of corporations every year and the resounding question that is posed to me is, ― If I am doing everything to be successful why am I still struggling to capture the happiness that comes with success? Many times in life, we fall prey to holding on to past regret, sorrow, disappointments, bitterness, and guilt. It doesn‘t make us feel good when we ponder these past indiscretions, but we can‘t seem to let them go. It hasn‘t helped us see tomorrow any better either, especially when we seem to be focusing on what happened to us yesterday. If only yesterday was the biggest problem.

I believe it‘s more like weeks, months, or even years past that build up too many negative thoughts, weighing people down with these regretful moments. They continue to pop up when you least expect them—times when you should be enjoying life. We push our lives into those negative places and we then find our emotional bucket being poured out. It creates a black hole deep inside us. It can get worse, though. This hole develops teeth that make the fall have a real bite, resulting in scars that can become infected if left unhealed.

To be continued …

The Good Life Rules!

Bryan Dodge

A Lesson from King Joash

There are so many leadership lessons in the Bible. In Chapter 13 of II Kings, at the end of Prophet Elisha’s life, King Joash came to him fearing for his country and his army because of their enemy Syria. Let’s pick up at verse 14 through verse 19.

“When Elisha was in his last illness, King Joash visited him and wept over him. ‘My father! My Friend! You are the strength of Israel.’

“Elisha told him, ‘Get a bow and some arrows.’ And he did. ‘Open that Eastern window,’ he instructed. Then he told the king to put his hand upon the bow, and Elisha laid his own hands upon the king’s hands.

“’Shoot’ Elisha commanded, and he did.

“Then Elisha Proclaimed, ‘This is the Lord’s arrow, full of victory over Syria: for you will completely conquer the Syrians Aphek. Now pick up the other arrows and strike them against the floors.’

“So the king picked them up and struck the floor three times. But the prophet was angry with him.

‘You should have struck the floor five or six times.’ He exclaimed, ‘For then you would have beaten Syria until they were entirely destroyed. Now you will be victorious only three times.’”

What is the lesson here? What has this got to do with your leadership skills? Let’s examine this scenario. Why did Elisha ask the King to strike the arrows on the floor? Why did Elisha become angry with King Joash when he struck the floor only three times?

When King Joash beat the arrow only three times, Elisha was discerning enough to know that Joash was lacking in the passion he needed to be an effective King and leader. Joash acted more in fear of his problem rather than in the faith for his mission (career) in life. He was King physically but had not developed the passion inwardly to overcome the daily challenges that were required of him as King and leader. His lack of passion marred his vision for Israel. His lack of passion hampered his ability to make decisions. That’s why he came to Elisha for advice. His lack of passion was an obstacle in the way to victory. Passion produces victory.

Joash had not developed passion for the kingship duties. He became complacent and passive. Therefore the blessing of victory that God had promised could only be manifested in direct proportion to the passion he exerted in his leadership. Elisha was able to prophesy the future of Israel by measuring the amount of passion of its leader, because Elisha knew passion produces results. The amount of passion (enthusiasm, zeal, fervor, excitement) you have developed is directly related to the degree of your success.

If Elisha were to measure your passion, could you predict your future success?

Steps for Moving Forward (3rd Step)

Third step forward:

America today has witnessed and continues to see more evidence of the true blindness of greedy people to their own materialism. It is important that you watch the front and back doors of your life when it comes to being on guard against all kinds of greed. Greed is not only love of possessions or power, but excessive anxiety about it. How do you know if it is a drive within you or greed? It is a fine line, trust me. If it comes from the outside, be very careful, because the ability to be greedy is in all humans. Learn not to feed it; it will not die, but it will be less likely to grow. Be very careful; we can drift toward greediness without even knowing it.

The Good Life Rules!

Bryan Dodge

Steps for Moving Forward (1st Step)

Here are some steps that you must take if you want to move forward in a way that will last for a lifetime:

First step forward:
During each of my speaking events so far this year, I have seen many people who have lost hope because they have lost the ability to dream. The greatest gift in life is the ability to dream, but the ability to dream has truly become an idle factory with very dirty windows.

Dreaming alone is good, but to dream with others is great. Sometimes, you can go faster in life by yourself – “I’ll do it; I can do it faster.” But you will go further with others. I have had a lot of disappointments throughout my life, usually when I try to go at it alone. But I am much more successful when I have someone close to remind me of the Good Life Rule to be thankful for what you have and not yearn for impossibilities. When you have that ability to be thankful, you can accomplish so much more.

Again, I can hear you thinking that’s not right. My radio show each week is really helping me be able to hear what you are thinking out there. I’m talking about a different road and a lot of different ideas. I have personally seen what happens sometimes when it comes from the outside in. Sure I run across people all the time that are not satisfied with what they have and they keep getting more in life. Again, I’m talking about that peace in life that money can’t buy. It is your ability to grow from the inside, so when the outside gets better you can enjoy it more.

Come back tomorrow for the 2nd step. Until then have a great day.

The Good Life Rules!
Bryan Dodge