It is Time to Stop Managing Down and Start Coaching Up!

Manager: a person who has control or direction of a business, or of a part, division, or phase of it.

Coach: a person who gives instruction or advice to elevate the performance of an individual or student.

Business men and women are looking for leaders who demonstrate an enthusiastic and genuine belief in others and who strengthens their will to succeed. Look at the two definitions above and think about which of those people is going to get the results needed in business today. Coaching is all about focusing on the talent of the person, and not so much about the production of the job description given when hired. Yes, businesses hire a manager to control the output of sales in order to control the outcome or production of business. However, if the focus is on enhancing the talents of hired staff, I believe the outcome will be greatly improved. Coaches focus on supplying the means to achieve, not on the fear of employees losing their jobs. It is the title of “coach” that helps to express optimism for the future with a firm walk in life.

A coach must keep hope alive from within the person. They must always strengthen their players’ belief that life’s struggles will produce a more promising future. This evolves into an intimate and supportive relationship, a relationship based not on pure authority, but on mutual participation that results in an inner renewal. The coach sees the good in you, and it is his or her job to bring the good out and place you in a position where your talent matches the task so success is almost a given. It is when you put people in positions of your needs that you are thinking like a manager, not a coach. Your job isn’t to put people in a position of your need; it is to put them in a position where they will succeed.

All great coaches find ways to change up the game plan in order to get tried and true results. Different competitions, changing up strategies, having employee input ideas from the field – all these things help to get your team engaged in the company’s goals and have some friendly competition to bolster energy for production. A manager without a coaching strategy might simply post the goals of the company for the quarter and give no input as to how to achieve those goals. This kind of manager is relying on the talents of the sales staff, but not enhancing or improving upon past performance. Yes, the coaching up manager is going to have to be creative.

Business owners should be looking for that quality in a coach for their team. Coaches, study your competition. There are strategies out there that are proven in the market place and should be followed, just like the skills to make a three point jumper shot at the buzzer. Perfect practice makes perfect. Follow your team on the road to help them to continue following proven principles your company has set. But by all means, have some fun with some friendly competition.

During these uncertain and changing times, those who take the title of Coach lead with a positive, confident, can-do approach to life and business, something that is so needed with the people I see each week. The feedback I receive from investing hundreds of hours each year with people is that they want a leader with a coaching focus, not a managing agenda. These people want to believe that we all are part of a journey, and this is not just a job or a task. They seem to gravitate toward people with a can–do attitude, not those who always seem to have a reason why something can’t be done. It is when the pressure is on that the title Coach becomes so important. A manager thinks one way and a coach thinks another. A coach says, “I asked you to be on this team because I believe in who you are as a person, not just as a player.”

The good coach sees what is good on the inside and brings it out. A manager sees what is on the outside and pushes it in. I hope this month’s e-Zine will find you coaching up for success.

The Good Life Rules!

Bryan Dodge

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“Change is inevitable, progress is a choice!” – Dean Lindsay

August 2009 – Thank You

I would like to thank all of my monthly e-Zine readers. Without you, there wouldn’t be any reason to pull together such a lineup of topics, and ideas each month. The number of readers continues to grow, from 10,000 at the beginning of this year to over 21,000 and growing. We are seeing continued growth, not only with the e-Zine, but also with the listeners of my weekly “Build a Better You” radio show on WBAP 820AM, now in its third year, and the number of events we are booking each week. This is truly a blessing!

The best news is that my book, “The Good Life Rules: 8 Keys to Being Your Best at Work and at Play” was the number one seller during a recent week for Borders bookstore. Why is this happening? It is because of you. You are the reason I get up early, and you are the reason why I’m on an airplane writing this article right now. You are the reason why I continue to make over 250 appearances every year. I love what I do, and I’m thankful that I can show up for you and for those that depend on you.

In life there are those moments that you will remember forever. I would like to share one of my life changing experiences with you. An important goal of mine was to someday interview Zig Ziglar for my radio show. That dream has come true. I can’t even begin to tell you how much that moment meant to me. His staff asked me to keep the interview to 30 minutes. I’m here to tell you that over two hours passed and Zig and I were still having a blast with the “interview.” He truly is one in a million. His son, Tom Ziglar, was in the room with us and he mentioned that his dad had a wonderful time. That really touched my heart.

Why am I telling you this story? To let you know that the interview will be aired on Saturday, August 29th, at 5:00 pm during my weekly radio show on WBAP 820AM. You can listen to the interview on the radio or you can listen to it via the internet. I will continue to find ways to bring good ideas to help you live a better life, both at work and at play.